As I was looking in the mirror the other day, I saw my shirt & noticed quite a few new "spots" that weren't there when I put my clothes on that morning. When I put my clothes on for the day, they were perfect. They hadn't been spit up on yet. They hadn't had snot rubbed all over them. And they definitely didn't have other things on them that I had to question.
No, my clothes were clean.
That is until I picked my daughter up & she spit up on them. And then rubbed her snotty little nose on them. And then she spewed baby food on them.
As I was looking at my shirt, I got mad at first because I was annoyed that I had to clean up the mess she had made all over my "nice shirt." I thought, "Ugh, I can't wait until the day I have a clean shirt again."
And then I stopped.
I realized, one day I'm going to miss my messy shirt. Sure, it might be kind of nice to have clothes that don't have stains on them. But those little stains were made by my sweet, smiley 6 month old daughter. One day, she'll be 16 & too cool rub her snotty nose on me (if she still does that, I may have to teach her how to use a tissue properly). But nonetheless, my point is, one day she's going to grow up. I'll no longer have spit up or snot on my shirt. And most likely, I'm going to miss it.
I think as moms, we often wish away our time. We say, "I can't wait until my child can play by themselves." Or "I can't wait until my child is potty trained." & so on & so forth. But what we're doing is ultimately not enjoying the here & now. We're not enjoying those sweet moments with our babies that will be gone in the blink of an eye. We're taking for granted the time that God has given us, & we're wishing it away because we think that the future looks brighter than today.
Yes, we may be in a harder season right now, wiping spit up off our shirts, but that time is slowly slipping away.
So as I started to clean my shirt off the other day, I decided that I'm going to "wear it proudly." No, I'm not going to be a slob (at least I'm not going to be most of the time ;) ), but I'm not going to be ashamed of it. I'm going to be thankful for it. Because there are a lot of women out there who wish they had spit up on their shirts that can't. And there are other women who wish they still had their baby's snot on their shirts, but their kids are too old now.
For now, I'll embrace my dirty shirt. I'll even enjoy it, because today is a gift. Tomorrow, Ruby will be one day older. So I think I'll enjoy today.
Thursday, April 20, 2017
Wednesday, April 5, 2017
Not sure how, but Ruby is 6 months old today! It's hard to believe that half a year ago, I held her in my arms for the first time. I literally feel like I just had her last month, but at the same time, I can't remember what my life was like before she was here. Ruby is the happiest baby I've ever seen. Sure, she cries & screams sometimes, but she smiles SO much! She is such a joy & will instantly make your day better, I promise.
Ruby finally mastered rolling from back to tummy last week so now she's super mobile. I can leave her in one spot, turn my back for a minute & she's somewhere completely different. We started baby-proofing some of the house already & we're hoping to finish off that task this weekend. She is super close to sitting up on her own. She can do it for a few seconds on her own with me ready to catch her. Ruby loves to read, sing & "pet" Murphy. She also loves to put anything & everything in her mouth, especially my hair ha. She is doing good at eating baby food-- she's tried cereal, peas, green beans, carrots, sweet potatoes, pears & then apples for the first time today! Right now, she's not a huge fan of fruit (which I really don't like fruit at all, I prefer veggies) but obviously, that could change.
Ruby went to her 6 month check up on Monday & she's in the 50th percentile again in height, weight & head! That same night, she slept in her own room for the first time. Those of you who follow me on social media may have saw that I was a little bit of a wreck that night. As I was feeding her before bed & rocking her, I just cried. Not because I was scared to leave her in her room (she's already been taking naps in there), but because somehow this sweet little 7 pounds & 13 ounces baby grew to be 15 pound & 10 ounces in the blink of an eye.
This baby girl is the sweetest.
Happy 6 months, Ruby June! We love you so much!
Thursday, March 16, 2017
|Aww.. See my sweet Instagram Husband in the window of this pic? ;)|
Carseat/Stroller Set: Graco (similar)
|Always sucking on her fingers.|
|Sunglasses: Charming Charlie | Top: Tobi | Leggings: Old Navy (sold out, but similar) | Shoes: DSW (similar)|
|Necklace: Hey June | Top: Tobi | Leggings: Target | Shoes: Old Navy|
Life in the Cunningham Fam has been kind of hectic lately. We're adjusting to some new changes in our lives & trying to continue to make time for each other. That's also a constant struggle for parents too I suppose. I recently read this book & highly recommend it for newer mamas who are trying to keep marriage a priority. It's a 21 day challenge.. Most of the things in the book are things we used to do when we were dating our spouse, but now that we're married & have kids, we don't "feel the need" to do those things anymore. It definitely has changed my perspective on choosing to love Andrew daily. Because let's be real, sometimes it's hard to be nice & loving when your kid just spit up on you or you've had a million blowouts that day.
Speaking of "kids", Ruby is possibly on the verge of teething (?). I really don't know though. Last night she was running a slight fever & just wasn't acting herself so we decided to keep her home from church. And then before bed, she wasn't running a fever & acted fine. Her doctor gave me some advice & signs on teething so I don't want to rush to any conclusions that she might be teething & then she's not. (#FirstTimeMomProbs) Nonetheless, I guess she'll be teething sooner or later & we'll get to experience that adventure.
For those of you wondering about Murphy, he's doing great. He's currently at the groomer, having the time of his life. He loves going because all of the ladies in there think he is the cutest thing ever & he knows it. Seriously guys, he walks in there STRUTTING. He's so funny.
Well, that's all for some nap time chit-chat because Ruby is about to wake up!
Happy Thursday, y'all!
And P.S. All of my tops from today's post & Monday's post are from a new shop I found called Tobi! Check them out!